Why Do Men Change After Sex?.. Everyone has an opinion.
In my opinion, men are great hunters or fishermen... and their desires to conquer a successful game kill or a big fish gives them the feelings of knowing they have achieved what they were out to conquer. A challenge to kill a special sized animal or they're able to overcome the challenge and to catch the biggest fish they feel a self-satisfaction once they've done it. They love the excitement of knowing they have the capability to succeed in their challenges and to overcome them, and I believe, this same instinct comes in to play when they see an attractive woman they like and want to conquer into their web of a sexual relationship with them.
Hunting Games
Men play great games of trying to catch their prey and they'll do anything to mark a win. When a man is chasing his prey, they'll do anything to get a woman's attention and to get her to go out on a date with them. They'll wine and dine a woman and nothing is to great to get for them...this is what I call the hunter's chase. They'll court you with flowers, candy, jewelry, and miscellaneous other gifts but wait until the chase is over? They'll take you to the finest restaurants and they cannot stay away from you for a day. I believe they feel pacification will earn them a place in your bed. Haven't you ever seen this at play as you dated a man who has chased you for months?.
Once a woman steps over the boundary and goes to bed with a man, they've tasted of the vine and their conquest has been partially completed and they can lie back and enjoy their conquest. They'll enjoy this taste of the vine and feel they've conquered and succeeded and the woman will all at once notice a change in getting gifts and such showing their lovers hunt is over. Let's face it, the hunt is over for him unless he feels he's found an unconditional love.
A Woman Must Keep Her Hunter Interested In His Prey
It's important for a woman to keep the hunter interested in his prey...she must keep a distance to an extent and not be at his beckon call. She should choose clothing to enhance her figure and keep an interesting hair style and make-up going. Keep him interested in the mysterious side of you. Don't allow the hunter to believe he has you under his thumb. Continue to go out with your friends and to do the things you like to do or maybe take a trip to visit a friend who lives out of town...in other words, keep the hunter intimated by his prey he wants...never let him think he has conquered and succeeded.
A woman must keep a man interested in them and feeling like the hunt is never over. Wear nice sexy lingerie and plan unusual nights that will keep him guessing at all times. Allow him to see that you're something special and a person he wants to enjoy his life with. This is certainly not to be used as a form of disciplining the man but what you're doing is keeping him interested. Hunters love to hunt and to desire to achieve their challenge and by keeping them unsure...it sparks their interests.
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